Re: Quit my league over this BS? opinions needed REP
Originally Posted by
wonko
First thing I would do is talk directly to the league manager and his wife. Find out exactly what happened and who set the absent GM's roster and why. I would be tactful about it. If she actually did what you claim they should both realize quite easily that she was in the wrong. Perhaps from there you can sort things out amicably. People make mistakes. If she admits to making a mistake and tries to correct it, everybody wins. If she and the league manager do not agree that this action was unjust, perhaps it is time to move on from this "friendship", because what was done was obviously not fair or sportsmanlike conduct.
Couldn't agree with this more. It could be that the commish's wife is a scamming two-timer who did everything in her power to cheat to win. It could be she was naïve to how her actions were unfair. I would calmly as possible ask why the managers team was suddenly updated, by whom and why. If she does indeed admit to doing it I would lay out why it was unfair for her to take such actions. If she is apologetic and you believe it was an innocent mistake perhaps it can be water under the bridge. If you think she knew what she was doing and try to screw you then perhaps you need to move on to a new league in the offseason.
Either way given your impending wedding try and be tactful and avoid losing one or more friendships over this matter.
12 team H-2-H 1 year league, daily roster changes, 3 goalie start minimum/week
2xC, 2xRW, 2xLW, 4xD, 3xUtil, 2xG, 5 Bench
G, A, P, PIM, PPP, SHP, GWG, SOG, Hits, W, SV%, GAA, SVs
C: C. Keller, C. Mittelstadt, B. Nelson, R. Strome,
LW: K. Connor, B. Tkachuk, J. Gaudreau, J. Marchessault, E. Rodrigues, A. Lafreniere
RW: K. Fiala, J. Bratt, T. Jeannot V. Arvidsson
D: R. Josi, J. Trouba, E. Gustafsson,
G: L. Thompson, F. Gustavsson, V. Vanecek
NO IR