Objective? I fully understand your opinion, I just don't agree with it. You won't even acknowledge mine, or the points I've made, you just step around them.
I'm not trying to get you to agree with me. As above, I am looking for you to understand my point, no need to accept it. Yes, I have made up my mind, it was made up a long time ago - wanna hear it? Gay is ok, it's as normal as a birthmark, and as said eloquently by others, its not something that needs to be celebrated or shared with anyone else. It is just one aspect of whom a person is, and we all have a sexual preference. What that preference is, is not the business of others and should be kept to ones's self.
By the same token, what other people think of someone sexual preference is also private. There is no need to share this. When someone is forced to share their thoughts on this matter things can get ugly. Is there a "right way" to think about this? Sure there is, but we are all wrong about things every day, and that isnt going to change.
It should not be my responsibility to make someone else comfortable with who they are. I will treat you as you treat me, that is the only deal we have.