I don't believe for a minute that this is true, blayze. Through life we do what we do because of what we gain from it - we all make different choices to fuel these needs we have.
I think 'goodness' is just a whole bunch of mythology. Comparative approaches to this or even psychological fitness will never do justice to anyone. I'm psychologically fit and you are as well - we both get an A+. The comparison between you and I can end there and really has very little utility.
Love to see you here sometime in Cambodia - I have one more year's work in Korea and then relocating here.